I thought that I had left bullies behind in high school where I was teased because not only did I talk funny, but I wore hand me down clothes as it was all that my mother could afford.

But then, I get involved in BDSM and the local community, and I find myself dealing with the same drama all over again. It's so easy for people to say "Just get over it" or "Brush it off" but when you have been dealing with being put down all of your life, especially from the closest people in your life, being verbally attacked by a person in the community that for some reason has an influence on people really fucking sucks.

I wore an outfit this person gave me because, hmm I actually like it and had accepted this person as a friend. So then she goes out of her way to say she is glad she gave it away because it is not attractive. So I have now negotiated a scene to have the damn thing cut into shreds from my body. Then I will burn it.

This person assumes shit, and when it doesn't go her way, she makes up lies so that she doesn't look bad. In fact she actually posts them publicly on her profile to cause drama.. Even going as far as bringing up my children, talk about vindictive.

If people want to play along with this bully, then have fun with it. I am done with it. You win because I will not play that game.

It hurts to see people I care about interact with her, but I am confident that she will show her true colors. Bullies of any kind always get what's coming to them. I wish this person the best in her life and with her children.